For Field Personnel
Pitfalls to Avoid When
Working with Students
Students can benefit mission strategy, but virtually every
missionary who has hosted students has hit a pitfall or two
that created a hiccup in the mission project. Pitfalls most
often occur because students are new to a culture and they
need mentoring and assistance to effectively work within the
parameters of the culture. Pitfalls often can be avoided through
thorough orientation and consistent discipling while the students
are on the field. As the missionary host, take note of the
student's reactions to culture and ministry issues and use
their reaction to train future student teams.
Below are some typical pitfalls that students have faced
and some advice on how to avoid these issues with your student
teams.
- Emotional issues
- Culture
shock can be lethal to an effective ministry, especially
when that ministry is only a week or two in length.
Some cultural issues, whether from the food, heat, or
relationships with nationals, are more significant than
others, but the volunteers need their missionary supervisors
to respond to their felt need so they feel heard and
cared for rather than feeling ignored or belittled for
their concerns.
- Some symptoms of culture shock include moodiness,
withdrawal, extreme sadness, homesickness, extremely
negative attitudes, criticism, and anger toward
other team members, you as the field supervisor,
local residents and even God.
- Luis Bush, evangelist and director of AD2002,
says that usually, it takes time to recover from
culture shock and adjust to the everyday realities
of a country before being able to contribute much,
limiting the length of effective ministry time even
further. With encouragement and caring, and an occasional
kick in the seat of the pants from the missionary
supervisor and other volunteer team members, a volunteer
can slog through culture shock issues and still
have an effective short-term ministry.
- Prejudice is often an outgrowth of culture
shock that manifests itself in an attitude that "our
way is right, their way is wrong." Continual nurturing
of the mindset that worldviews and the resulting cultural
activities are simply different, not right and wrong.
Convinced that the Western way to do things is the Christian
way, Bush says, the volunteer may become critical of
cultural differences and give the impression that they
feel superior. It takes time to develop an appreciation
for a particular culture's strengths.
- Of course, some moral issues will shake down
into categories of moral (right) and immoral (wrong),
or godly and ungodly. In those cases, you can disciple
your volunteers to have a compassionate view of
the sinfulness of the culture rather than a superior,
judgmental attitude.
- Solution for culture shock and prejudice: Individuals
in culture shock need immediate counsel. Encourage
them to talk about their feelings, to pray about
them and to increase their quite time. Lead the
volunteer to focus on the positive aspects of the
work and the similarities between American culture
and the host culture, rather than dwelling on the
difficulties and differences. Keeping the volunteers
busy and encouraging him to learn to laugh at himself
aids in this time of emotional crisis.
- The team can help a team member overcome culture
shock and prejudice issues as to debrief each evening.
Encourage team members to share openly about their
experiences and their feelings about their experiences.
Reflect the team member's feelings back to him and
then ask a team member to pray for that team member
and the specific need(s). For example, if Joe Team
Member shares that he feels overwhelmed by his lack
of ability to communicate because of the language
barrier, reflect back to Joe, "Joe, I hear
you saying that you feel overwhelmed because you
don't know the language and, therefore, can't talk
to the people like you want to." Joe will affirm
your reflection. Encourage Joe about the positive
side of the issue - his desire to talk with the
people shows a real interest in them, which is a
gift from God. His love for God is also evident
in the fact that he wants to verbally share Jesus
with them. Then either you can pray for Joe or ask
a team member to pray for Joe, asking God to show
Joe how to glorify Him in his actions if he can't
use words, and to remind Joe that God's peace is
available to him if he will keep his mind on Christ
(Is.26:3) and choose to not let his heart be troubled
and to not be afraid (John 14:27)
- Health
issues
a. Staying healthy is a primary concern of volunteers. Many
volunteers will be overly cautious about their health, but
some will take unhealthy precautions such as not drinking
in order to avoid using a public toilet. The problem this
unhealthy approach creates is dehydration. Dehydration can
devastate a volunteer's long-term health, so reviewing the
basics of how to stay healthy in the host culture is an
excellent way to avoid trips to the doctor that you don't
really have time to make.
b. Solution for staying healthy: (2) Have a plan for health
care ahead of time should any team members become ill and
need to visit a doctor or a hospital. You can use the medical
facilities part of the pre-project
checklist as a quick reference to be prepared for health
emergencies.
c. In
case of emergency: how to contact
the insurance company.
d. In case of illness or injury: Be sure that all volunteers
working with you have enrolled for Adams
and Associates. Unless the situation is life-threatening,
follow the steps on the in
case of emergencies form before going to the doctor
so you know ahead of time how the insurance company needs
to handle the situation.
- Dependency issues
a. This issue is critical, but most volunteers do not
understand the concept of dependencies on the mission
field and how detrimental dependencies can be to multiplying,
healthy indigenous churches. When well-meaning volunteers
encounter poverty and need, they want to fix the problem
and the first solution that comes to mind is providing
money. Monetary solutions can come in the form of wanting
to adopt a national child, bring a young adult to the
USA for higher education, or simply handing out money
or goods. The sad fact is that sometimes good intentions
result in situations that are not productive or are even
harmful.
Some common situations to which you will want to formulate
responses
before hosting volunteers include:
- Encountering beggars (of all ages) on the street or
at restaurants
- Befriending young adults who ask for a sponsor to come
to the
USA for higher education or seminary studies
b. Solution for dependencies: Nip this issue in the bud
by addressing dependency issues in orientation. Help the
team understand your overall strategy and to see their piece
of the puzzle. Talk about help that really helps and help
that hurts your specific ministry. The
harvest Bible study
will help the team to understand the stage your ministry
is in (sowing, planting, watering, or reaping) and the role
they play.
As the field supervisor, you can teach the volunteer team
the following issues about using money without causing harm:
- It is easy for a volunteer team to think they can solve
a problem (as they perceive it) with money.
- Volunteers need to recognize that the infusion of the
U.S. dollars may:
- Make the missionary or church leader look bad.
- Make the local church and believer dependent on the
dollar and on Americans rather than on God.
- Make people think they have little or nothing to give
back to God
- Foster the attitude that Western technology and structure
is superior.
- Set outsiders’ agenda
- Determine progress by the availability of outside funds
- Stifle local leaders creativity and innovation
- Damage local value systems
- Harden the hearts of local believers
- Destroy ownership
You can also give the volunteers these tips for giving:
- Do not give to individual church leaders.
- Subsidizing literature should not lower its value in
the user’s eye.
- Providing for education out of the cultural context
maybe more harmful than helpful.
- Buildings should reflect the quality of housing people
live in.
- Projects that do not fit the character of the community
should be avoided.
- Food aid should not lower the price of local commodities
thus impacting the economy.
Once the volunteers experience the poverty or need of your
people group/population segment, emotional responses will
be the primary issue to counteract because emotion often
overrides logic. To counteract the emotions connected with
dependency issues, help the volunteers to put the situation
in a cultural context rather than in an American context.
Remember how you first felt as a wealthy American in an
impoverished culture and share your struggles and your solutions
for dealing with the poverty with the volunteers. Help the
volunteers find culturally appropriate solutions that can
truly help ministry efforts and the individuals involved
without creating dependencies such as entrusting you or
someone on your mission team with money that can be given
to true needs at an appropriate time and in an appropriate
manner.
- Money issues
a. As mentioned in the dependencies
section, using money appropriately in the host culture
is a major puzzle for most volunteers and they need your
help to develop appropriate solutions to the problems
they will face.
- Shopping - What should volunteers expect to find when
they shop? Are the prices fixed, or should they expect
to bargain for the goods? Help the volunteers know approximate
costs they should pay for certain items, particularly
souvenirs.
- Beggars - If a volunteer does want to give something
to a beggar, what is appropriate to give (money versus
food, for example), and what amount is appropriate to
give.
- Offerings - How much is appropriate to give for the
offering at church services?
- Tips - do taxi drivers and restaurant wait staff receive
tips in your country? If so, how much is the right amount
to give? Should house help and translators receive a
tip? If so, how much should be given and how should
it be given, directly to the person, or through you
as a third party?
- Payment for services - What is the appropriate payment
for the services of an interpreter and how should the
payment be made to the individual? Money issues related
to translators and other nationals who have served a
volunteer team may require explanation of why the boundaries
are set as they are. For example, if a volunteer gives
a translator an extra $100 as a tip for doing a great
job, the other translators will become jealous and discord
between the translators can result. Another issue to
explain is that the translators may work with the ministry
in the future and with other volunteer teams because
of the monetary gain they may receive, rather than being
a partner in ministry for ministry's sake. Finally,
if a team pays house help a higher salary than other
house help receives, that team basically "breaks
the curve" for house helpers and can create discord
between missionaries and their house help in the future.
- Maturity and Lack
of Mentoring Issues
a. Most volunteers want their missionary supervisor to mentor
them in effective ministry techniques and culturally appropriate
behavior for the host culture. Luis Bush says that few volunteers
can function effectively without long-term missionaries
alongside. Mentoring often consumes a great deal of more
of a missionary's time and emotional energy than is expected.
Mentoring is, however, the not same and babysitting, that
is, having to watch over a volunteers and hold his hand
through every situation to ensure that he does not harm
the ministry, himself, or others.
b. Please be sensitive to mentoring volunteers in ministry
strategy, personal spirituality, and cross-cultural living
as some of them, especially student volunteers, will be
wondering if God is leading them to longer-term service
on the international mission field and they will want your
insight and personal testimony for direction.
c. Solution for mentoring issues: On the Volunteer
Project Request, feel free to write the level of emotional
and spiritual maturity that you need from volunteers who
fill this assignment.
d. Once the volunteers are on the field, If you do encounter
a volunteer who needs "babysitting," give advice
to the team leader about working through the problem, but
leave the team leader to deal with the difficult team member(s).
Some suggestions to give the team leader include (1) Look
beyond the surface with the student to determine the core
issue resulting in their issue/discouragement then address
that issue accordingly; (2) covenant to pray for the team
members that God will supply all their needs; (2) encourage
the team leader to listen to the issues of the struggling
team member and reflect the feelings raised back to the
person. Often, hearing a persons feelings can be the starting
point for dealing with the problem; (3) partner a more mature
team member with the struggling team member for accountability
and spiritual encouragement.
e. If a student creates too many problems and seems to fragment
the team's effectiveness, or becomes too subversive, you
have the authority to send the person home early. Please
discuss this solution with the Team Leader prior to making
the decision. The Student Mobilization Team will support
you if they make the decision to send a student home early.
If there is no team leader for a particular student, as
in the case of individual student applicants, you have the
final say about sending a student home to deal with his/her
issues at home rather than being a distraction on the field
to the ministry and the rest of the team.
In a case when there is a team leader but the leader
doesn’t want to deal with the problem, you as the
field personnel also have the final say about sending
the student home early. These cases are usually extreme,
and the Student Team hopes and believes that this scenario
does not happen often. However, there have been cases
when field personnel felt “trapped” with the
student for however long they were on the field; in reality,
the student could have and should have been sent home
at the behest of the field personnel and with the support
of the Student Mobilization Team.
- Morality and accountability issues
a. Some volunteers may come to the field with unresolved
spiritual and emotional issues because they are running
away from the issues at home or because a parent, minister,
or therapist advised them that a mission experience could
be good for them. Culture shock can cause unhealthy coping
mechanisms in a person's life to surface on the mission
field. One volunteer's morality issues can derail a ministry
and wreak havoc on a volunteer team's cohesiveness and their
ability to be effective.
b. Solution: If you encounter a volunteer acting out in
inappropriate or immoral ways, please confront the person
and the situation in a redemptive manner, but do not hesitate
to sideline the volunteer from ministry and interaction
with the nationals, even choosing to send the person home
before the end of the project if you deem it necessary.
Encourage the volunteer to seek accountability on the team
and also once he returns home. Also encourage the volunteer
that God can help him overcome these issues and will use
him for His glory in the future.
c. Sometimes nationals will perceive immorality through
actions that are completely innocent to Americans. Remember
that your volunteers are new to this culture and the new
set of cultural boundaries will be hard for them to remember,
so orient them to the morality issues of your culture that
can create problems and remind them of those issues periodically
throughout their time with you.
d. Some of the more common perceive immorality issues include:
- Clothing, especially what American women wear in public
- Smoking
- Drinking
- Cross-gender interactions, including pairing off for
any activity and hugging and/or kissing in greeting or
departing
- Visits to inappropriate establishments on the field
such as nightclubs or the “red light district,”
even just to “see what it looks like.” Inappropriate
joking in public about “where to meet girls/guys”
is also detrimental to the team's witness.
- Unrealistic Expectation Issues
a. Some volunteers become disillusioned with the ministry
and even with the missionary if they are not allowed to
minister or evangelize in a way they think is appropriate.
They may arrive on the field with the idea that “the
Lord sent me here to do so-and-so type of ministry”
and they believe that the supervisor is off-base and unspiritual
if s/he does not allow the volunteer the freedom to pursue
that ministry.
b. Solution: To counteract this kind of disillusionment
that can lead to ministry mutiny, review with your volunteers
where in the harvest
process your ministry and this project resides. Are
you in the sowing phase (widely broadcasting the gospel),
the planting phase (deliberate planting of the gospel or
of discipleship), the watering phase (nurturing the gospel
seeds that have begun to take root), or the reaping phase?
Helping the volunteers understand where their efforts fit
in the harvest process will help them to stay focused on
the tasks at hand rather than being sidetracked by activities
in which they are not "allowed" to engage.
c. Pray with team members for God to give them opportunities
to do the ministry they “came to do.” For example,
if evangelism is the desire of the team, but the ministry
or ministry setting is not appropriate, for pray God to
give opportunities for team member(s) to give a verbal witness
in an appropriate place to someone who is seeking. If the
team came expecting to lead ESL and the ministry plans changed,
ask the Lord to provide opportunities for the team members
to help nationals practice their English after the day's
other ministry activities are finished.
d. Pray with the team, also, for a spirit of unity and cooperation.
God will bring unity to your hearts and visions to bring
Himself glory if all those involved are willing to humble
themselves and their desires. The team's attitudes toward
each other and toward you will have a great effect on the
community beyond the basic ministry activities that were
performed. Jesus prayed in John 17 that His followers would
be one and He and the Father are one. Pray for the same
unity with and among the volunteer team.
e. Check your own attitude, too, toward the volunteers,
toward ownership of the ministry, and toward unity with
God's people.. Perhaps your vision of ministry has been
too narrow and the ideas the volunteers bring could effectively
broaden and deepen your plans. As you will tell the volunteers
many times, flexibility is a key to effective missions ministry.
- The Ugly American Issue
a. Boundaries delineating appropriate and inappropriate
activities are important for volunteers so they know how
to be good guests in the host culture, in a national's home
and in your home. For example, many Americans when visiting
another country think that if a local person does not understand
them, they simply need to speak more loudly.
b. Solutions for being a good guest in a host culture:
Don't be afraid to set down the ground rules for how to
be a good guest in “your” culture. Help volunteers
become self-aware about habits (such as speaking and laughing
loudly in public) that would be considered rude in the host
culture. Ground rules also apply to being a guest in someone's
home. Let volunteers know, for example, that they can eat
anything in your refrigerator except the imported American
cheese or chocolate that you have been hoarding since you
arrived in the country. If K.P. duty is necessary to keep
the guest house running smoothly during their stay or to
prevent overworking the house help, clearly delineate each
team member's duties each day so there is no confusion about
their responsibilities. If team members create difficulties
about the ground rules, defer the problem to the team leader.
c. Being a good guest in a national's home is something
all volunteers desire, but few will know how to accomplish
without your insight. Advise them, for example, if eating
everything on their plate is a signal to their hostess that
they want more food. Give them culturally appropriate ways
to say “no, thank you” to a food dish or advise
them that they have to try every dish or risk offending
their hosts. Another potential faux pas arises in taking
a “hostess gift” such as a bouquet flowers or
candy. If a hostess gift is expected by the national hosts,
give the volunteers advance warning so they can be prepared
and give them ideas of appropriate gifts to bring. If carnations
are offensive, for example, because they are considered
a funeral flower in your country, knowing this tip in advance
will help the volunteers be gracious guests.
d. Students may need more direction in how to be a good
guest in a host's home than adult volunteer teams. Curfew
times, when it's appropriate to raid the a refrigerator,
appropriate clothing around the house, etc. are issues with
which youth and college students will need guidance. Taking
gifts to national hosts is also an area in which young people
will welcome your advice.
- Interpreter issues
a. Working with and speaking through an interpreter will
be new for most students. Red flags are raised when volunteers
use idioms and colloquial expressions that the translator
does not understand or cannot easily translate. The timing
and rhythm of speaking in short phrases and waiting for
the phrase to be translated can create difficulty for a
volunteer, as well.
b. Solution: Encourage your volunteers to write down their
testimonies and sermons and have another team member review
it for American expressions and illustrations. Then have
the team practice “translating” for each other
as if they were in a real translation situation.
a. Safety
and security
are uppermost in Americans' minds as they travel overseas
these days.
b. Solution for safety issues: Volunteers who work with
you will want to hear from you that the travel to the field
and their stay on the field should be safe. No one can promise
safety, but reasonable assurances that their experience
should be safe and that you would not invite them to work
with you if they would be in danger can quell fears for
both volunteers and their families.
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