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Talking with the Nations

Starting up a conversation with a stranger is often difficult, but when you don't know if the person speaks - or understands - English, a conversation can be even more intimidating. Try some of these suggestions as conversation starters with the inter-nationals around you. Once you begin talking, God can speak through you to the nations in your own community!

Conversation Starters with Internationals

• If you see an international-type name on the nametag of a clerk or waitress: "Your name is unusual/beautiful. How do you pronounce it? Does it have a meaning? What language is that? . . .
  
• In class at the beginning of a semester: The professor spoke very quickly. Did you understand the him? Would you like to study together?
  
• On campus or in class: How did you choose to attend this school? Or: How did you choose to come to school in (name of state)?
  
• Your accent is lovely/beautiful/engaging. Did you move to this area from another country? How did you choose to live in this area/state/city?
  
• Where did you grow up?
  
• Show me on this map where you are from? (Begin to carry a small map of the world with you.)
  
• Your daughter/son is very pretty/handsome. How old is s/he? (Be cautious, however, about complimenting children too excessively.)
  
• Your dress is beautiful. Where did you buy it? (Be cautions about complimenting personal or household items, however, because in some cultures, the person is then bound to give you the item which you complimented.)
  
• Tell me about your classes. Which one do you like the most?
  
• How are classes different here than in your country?
  
• What is your favorite restaurant here?
  
• Is there a good place around here to find food from your country?
  
• What are some customs here that you think are strange or unusual? What are some customs here that surprise you?
  
• Tell me about your family/your home.
  
• How long have you been in this country?
  
• What are some differences between here and your country?
  
• What do you miss most about your country?
  
• Have you found the stores you need? Do you have transportation there? Can I take you to Wal-Mart or the grocery store?
  
• Once you have established a friendship: What is something I can pray for you about?

More resources:

Understanding Your International Students: A Educational, Cultural, and Linguistic Guide -- by Jeffra Flaitz. ed.

Crossing Cultures: Making Friends in a Multi-Cultural World -- by Penny Lane

The World at Your Door -- by Tom Phillips

International Students Inc.